- Try to recall your own confusion and discovery, excitement and frustration, happiness and heartbreak during your teen years. It will help give you...
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Overcoming Adult Amnesia
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • February 3 • No Comments
I just wrote a post on the teenage brain and the pitfalls of what I call "adult amnesia." Here are some tips to combat your selective memory of adolescence!
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Video Game Addiction: I'd Rather Inventory©
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • January 26 • No Comments
I just wrote responded to a parent concerned about video game addiction. Use this inventory in conjunction with the Video Game Addiction Symptom Checklist to see if your child might need help.
Check each statement you agree with.
____I’d rather play video games than be with my friends....
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Video Game Addiction: Symptom Checklist
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • January 26 • No Comments
Are you worried about your child's video game habits? Take a look at this video game addiction symptoms checklist I created to see if you have cause for alarm. While this is not a diagnostic tool, it can help you assess whether or not games are an unhealthy part of your child's life and if you might need the help of a professional.
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5 Tips for Effective Limits and Consequences
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • November 22, 2011 • No Comments
We know that effective limits and consequences are key to the development of respect, empathy, and self-discipline. That said, setting and enforcing them aren't always easy. Here are some tips to get you started:
- State your expectation clearly as well as the consequence for non-compliance.
- Be specific. For example, “I want you to take out the garbage. If it’s...
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10 Ways to Form Secure Attachment With Your Baby
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • September 16, 2011 • No Comments
I just wrote a post about the importance of forming a secure attachment with your baby. Here are ten ways you can make sure that you are putting your baby on the path towards independence and self-discipline:
- Don't ignore your baby's cries. Respond to her cries of distress by trying to figure out what is wrong and soothing...
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Praise and Children: Building Real Self-Esteem
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • July 27, 2011 • No Comments
Can praising kids be a bad thing? Not as long as we remember a couple of helpful strategies.The right kind of praise and encouragement help our children develop the self-confidence and knowledge they need to reach their potential. That is why it is so important to really understand what good praise looks like - and when it falls short of meeting the mark....More... -
Media and Obesity: 10 Ways to Raise Healthy, Active Kids
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • June 28, 2011 • No Comments
I just wrote a post about the latest policy statement on media and obesity from the American Academy of Pediatrics. Screen media isn't inherently a health risk - it just needs to be kept in balance with healthy activities and plenty of fruits and vegetables. Check out these tips:
- Take screens out of your children's...
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Tips for Parents: Managing the Multitasking Generation
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • June 23, 2011 • 1 Comment
I just wrote a post about the brains of the multitasking generation and the cognitive costs of juggling too much at the same time. Here are some tips for parents to make sure your children have multitasking under control. Their brains will thank you!
- Explain to your child that his or her brain is like a spotlight. It can...
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Parenting Tips on Sexting
Posted by Erin Walsh • June 14, 2011 • No Comments
With Representative Anthony Weiner's texting escapades all over the news it is a good time to revisit the issue of sexting with your kids. I just wrote a post on teenage sexting to help us better understand the issues. Here are some additional tips on sexting to get you started:
- Ask your child if they have ever received or seen a sext. Is...
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How to Nurture Resilience in Children
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • June 7, 2011 • 2 Comments
I just answered a question about stress and children and shared seven essential ingredients of resiliency. But what does it look like to really nurture resilience in children? How do we increase our children's self esteem while making sure that they develop the emotional tools to navigate hardship and challenge? The good news is, we can do both at the...
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Teaching Empathy
Posted by Erin Walsh • June 2, 2011 • No Comments
Dr. Dave just wrote a post about mirror neurons, exploring our built-in capacity to grasp the minds and experiences of others by simulating them in our brains. While he focused on the relationship between media violence and mirror neurons in that post, he also shared that mirror neurons...
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Setting Parental Controls
Posted by Erin Walsh • April 25, 2011 • No Comments
Will setting parental controls solve all of your family's Internet safety challenges? Of course not. But parental controls are an essential component of your 21st century parenting toolkit.
There is no silver bullet or techno fix guaranteeing that your child will be an upstanding digital citizen. Your involvement, supervision, limits, and nurturing have the greatest influence over your...
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Cyberbullying Tips
Posted by Erin Walsh • April 15, 2011 • No Comments
I just wrote a blog called Facing the Facts About Cyberbullying. Here are some tips to help prevent cyberbullying in the first place:
- Start with a conversation. Share cyberbullying facts and stories about cyberbullying with your child. Reinforce the message that bullying hurts.
- Make sure that your child understands that there...
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Sensory Processing Disorder Tips
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • March 23, 2011 • 1 Comment
I just wrote a blog post about sensory processing disorder that explains what SPD is and how to get support. Here are some further tips to help you navigate SPD with your kids.
- Sensory Processing Disorder is brain based and not the result of any parenting mistakes. It doesn’t help if you blame yourself. We don’t choose our...
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Choosing a School For Your Preshooler
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • March 21, 2011 • No Comments
I just answered a question about choosing a school for your preschool aged child. Here are five things to keep in mind:
1. Visit the school more than once. Include your child in at least one visit.
2. Check references and ask if you can speak with other parents.
3. Ask about the experience,...
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Closing the Achievement Gap
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • March 8, 2011 • No Comments
Poverty impacts brain development in critical ways. Here are four things to keep in mind as we look towards closing the achievement gap:
1. Support early childhood nutrition programs. The benefits far outweigh the cost.
2. Suppport early childhood programs that work.
3. Provide parent education.
4. Provide young parent support in areas of attachment,...
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Making the Most Out of Music
Posted by Erin Walsh • February 21, 2011 • No Comments
I just wrote a post about the influence of music on youth. Here are five tips to make sure that your kids get the most out of what is coming out of those earbuds!
- Talk to your kids about the lyrics in their favorite songs. What messages are they conveying? Do they line up with how they see the world? If they were to write a song, what would...
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6 Tips for Talking With Your Kids About Sex, Porn and the Internet
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • February 16, 2011 • No Comments
1. Talk to your kids about sex. Kids who have good communication with their parents about sex delay sexual activity and are more responsible and safe.
2. Make it an ongoing conversation. Don’t approach discussions about sex as the "big talk." Look for opportunities to have many shorter conversations beginning in the preteen years and continuing through adolescence.
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4 Tips When Buying Video Games for Kids
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • January 21, 2011 • No Comments
Check off these items before you buy a video game for your kids:
- Check the rating: age ratings and descriptions are on every box. Make sure the game you are buying is age rated for your child.
- Read the descriptions of the game: if it promises shooting and violence, chances are it will deliver. Think about what the game will...
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4 Tips to Curb Video Game Violence
Posted by Dr. Dave Walsh • January 10, 2011 • No Comments
More...- Follow industry game ratings on the cover of every game sold: M rated games should not be played by children and young teens.
- Know what games your children are playing. Almost a third of kids report that their parents don't know that they play M rated games.
- Talk with your children...

